Think of dating as growing a garden. The desired end result is a healthy crop.
Men are working with decent soil and sunlight, but don't have a good water source.
Women have lousy soil and there's an overgrown canopy making too much shade. They have access to a well and know where to buy good seeds.
Good soil is literally a feeling of security, the idea that they can meet people without immediate potential danger.
Water is the ability to navigate conversation and social norms to start growing the plant,
The seeds are matches, chances to get things started.
Women have no trouble getting bags and bags of seeds. But they try planting them, and they don't take at all. There's no partial fulfilment from that, it's worthless outside of a reassurance that there's potential.
Men have to spend a lot of time looking for seeds. So when they get some, it's a little exciting. It's a chance to take, to finally practice their planting techniques. Not enough to keep you from getting disheartened, but something.
Going from this point, men just need to water their seeds properly to get some real progress. It's hard, and the failures and time spent searching for new seeds is disheartening, but progress is progress.
Women are still hoping some of these seeds will take. They can try a lot of spots hoping to hit the right patches of soil, but they're further from the goal. They will have an easier time than men watering the crop, but getting to that point is a problem. And then they still need to clear some of the brush creating shade that represents their dates chances to be a threat.
Just because a metric is valuable to men doesn't mean it holds objective value in the quality of the scene as a whole.
This is a far better analogy.
But Im not gonna reiterate my points from my last post right now. I may come back to this.
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Like 90% of CE topics are the same way lol. CE is edgy/contrarian as f*** and will do anything to troll the TC/OP. -Touch