LogFAQs > #975132681

Look, as a human being you're going to notice other people are attractive. It's fine to glance or to mentally notice as you're going about your day normally. But it's your responsibility to make sure that you're not staring or doing anything else to the degree that other people notice. And I don't just mean whoever you're looking at. If other people notice you creepily staring at someone, that's going to make them uncomfortable.

And if you and someone else who is also comfortable want to discreetly talk about someone... I guess you're not hurting anyone? I still am not a fan of it. You really should try to avoid talking about people behind their backs. If you can't say it to their face you should ask yourself whether you need to say it at all. Or at least save those conversations for outside of work.

And don't just assume other people will be comfortable talking about that. Also, it is once again your responsibility to make sure other people don't hear you. Oh, and it should go without saying that if you're saying that stuff about someone who is underage, that makes it like ten times more disgusting.

I don't know, maybe some people just need to start seeing sexual harassment issues more like other things. Don't we usually avoid things like loudly farting in front of coworkers, blaring loud music at our desks, and having loud conversations about our bodily functions? You know, because it makes other people uncomfortable? Making vulgar comments and talking about the attractiveness of your coworkers makes people uncomfortable. So don't do it.