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TopicMy housemate's girlfriend is such an enabler it actually hurts
PK_Spam
04/08/23 8:47:14 AM
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Theyve been together for a year now, and shes really very sweet, but I think shes a little too other-minded.

Ive spent the last year watching housemates health deteriorate (but only when shes around) to the point that he pretends his heart condition makes it incredibly difficult for him to go up the stairs. He works like 2 days a week now, and doesnt even finish those shifts because hell have her come pick him up and drive him home before he can even take a lunch break, having her leave her job to do it.

Housemate has a habit of really over sharing in all aspects of his life, so he tries to justify why he cant work to me for some reason, but then hell go and say things like My paycheck this week was barely $200 :(. [Girlfriends mom] had to lend her her car, but I cant afford the gas to drive it :(. And I dont know how Im going to pay rent I might have to ask [Girlfriend] to help me out

This money-lending thing must have been happening for a while because housemate hasnt worked a consistent 30 hour week since before September.

Im sure this sounds very sad when you dont know him, but when shes not around, hes up at like 4 AM most nights screaming and shouting about Apex, but then goes right back to wheezing and using his sickly Victorian child voice the moment she calls him.

As a group, we only have this house until the end of July but its looking likely that Ill be out before that point. Looks like housemate is moving into his gfs moms house and I sincerely hope hes okay with putting this persona on 24/7 because Im anticipating many issues when the mom realizes that the daughter is paying everything while housemate basically just wants to lay on his bed all day, staring at his phone and then complaining that he only gets 2 hours of sleep, max, per night.

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