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| haloiscoolisbak 10/01/22 8:21:50 AM #20: | Intro2Logic posted... We've kissed goodnight, and they've been more passionate than just a peck, but no. Okay, yeah. So, no judgement, everyone's different and all that. I definitely get it and I've been there, hell my story was from when I was 27. I didn't even know if she was considering them dates I was so shy and inexperienced. she probably does know you have some interest if you met on an app but yeah. Not really sure what to tell you but I know if I was in that position now, at 31,after previous shitty experiences where I was too timid, I would at least try to talk about things soon. Probably easier than just trying to go for things physically if you're not feeling any tension or not sensing that the moment will happen naturally The next person I dated, I think it was date 4 we'd kissed a bit but hadn't had sex, and she was also sparse with the texting, but the fact we were obviously going on dates gave me the confidence to bring things up. I asked her in person if I could "ask her a question", she said "sure", I said something like"are you all good with the way things are going between us", calm as you like, and yeah it was as simple as that, she got the message and I think we had sex the next time we hung out, she took the lead completely It doesn't really matter the exact words you use, just get it out in the open you like this girl. At a certain age I think it's mature to not want to waste your time and tactfully express that --- Started from the bottom now we here ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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