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Topic	I am incapable of making friends. Ask me anything.
GrandConjuraton 09/24/22 4:50:36 PM #19:	ArchNemo posted... What about me You're one of the only two people who actually talks to me. xXfireglzXx posted... What value do you see in yourself? Follow up question, do you think it's fair for others to find value in you when you're unwilling to value yourself? You have to do something about self-loathing before anything else can change. You can still take issue with yourself, or aspects of yourself, but it cannot be allowed define your existence. Pride and positive reinforcement have value, even as an individual. Find things that make you less sad than normal. Identify why they make you feel even a little bit better. Then remind yourself, these are the things I can do. Even if it's something small, it matters in the grand scheme of self-recovery. Hell, think of it as beating an addiction to self-hate at this point. Any action you can take that isn't self-hate should be viewed as a positive action and built off of from there. I'm sorry that it's so tough for you, but I know that you are capable of this. As a passive observer and lurker, this is something you can accomplish I don't really feel that I have any inherit value. There's nothing that i'm good at, and there's nothing that makes me noteworthy in comparison to anyone else... i'm completely negligible, as my life has shown me time and time again. I can't offer anything to anyone. This is all that I really know. I've been at this point for at least twelve years, and I wasn't exactly well off before then. Virgalyssa posted... Hey me too! I've had a lot of friends do that so I think we will get along just fine. My PMs are open if you're willing to be feeling like you've wasted your time later, >.< --- Fading out, fading alone; as we speak, we turn to stone. https://imgur.com/o21DN7r <cite>GrandConjuraton posted [p:968267279] in I am incap... [t:80176978]...</cite> <quote>ArchNemo posted... </cite><quote>What about me </quote>You're one of the only two people who actually talks to me.xXfireglzXx posted... </cite><quote>What value do you see in yourself?Follow up question, do you think it's fair for others to find value in you when you're unwilling to value yourself?You have to do something about self-loathing before anything else can change. You can still take issue with yourself, or aspects of yourself, but it cannot be allowed define your existence.Pride and positive reinforcement have value, even as an individual. Find things that make you less sad than normal. Identify why they make you feel even a little bit better. Then remind yourself, these are the things I can do. Even if it's something small, it matters in the grand scheme of self-recovery.Hell, think of it as beating an addiction to self-hate at this point. Any action you can take that isn't self-hate should be viewed as a positive action and built off of from there.I'm sorry that it's so tough for you, but I know that you are capable of this. As a passive observer and lurker, this is something you can accomplish</quote>I don't really feel that I have any inherit value. There's nothing that i'm good at, and there's nothing that makes me noteworthy in comparison to anyone else... i'm completely negligible, as my life has shown me time and time again. I can't offer anything to anyone.This is all that I really know. I've been at this point for at least twelve years, and I wasn't exactly well off before then.Virgalyssa posted... </cite><quote>Hey me too! I've had a lot of friends do that so I think we will get along just fine.</quote>My PMs are open if you're willing to be feeling like you've wasted your time later, >.< --- Fading out, fading alone; as we speak, we turn to stone.https://imgur.com/o21DN7r</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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