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Cleo_II posted...

Dating apps are a terrible way to find people but shy/introverted men will continue to rely on them because its most comfortable to them. I watched my female friend go through profiles on Hinge, and she passed over many decent looking men with good jobs, etc just cause.

Men who are successful with women go out of their way and out of their comfort zone. They learn to deal with rejection and continue to try. They try other methods like meet ups, striking up conversations, etc Which is commendable really. Dating is freaking hard. But many men who arent successful havent tried anything beyond what theyre comfortable with. Which is either nothing or hiding behind an app and hoping for the best.

Don't you think it's a bit weird to do all just to get a gf though. It just seems like a bad foundation for doing all that stuff in the first place... Which is why I am skeptical. Every time I meet new people I will be trying to think of the prospects for dating.

And then if you don't make it your focus it probably won't happen. So the issue is just about doing things in good faith for me.