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Sayoria posted...

To be with someone, you limit so much of life. If I was with someone, I wouldn't be able to take the trips I have and plan them the way I do. I wouldn't have as much me-time and I like it a lot.

This is still kinda how I feel. I definitely need me-time, where I can get away from people and just do my own thing. And I got very comfortable in that zone in my early 20s. But that's one of those things I started to unpack, and realized that some of it was a sort of self-imposed barrier. I also had and still have trust issues, which contributed too.

But it doesn't have to be a trade-off. You can find partners who respect your need for privacy and also need me-time themselves. And then you can get those cuddles when you want them, and still have time alone when you want that too. I usually see my current girlfriend a few days each week, but in between I've got everything to myself!