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puppy posted...

Reading this topic makes me think that microplastics affecting mens testosterone is probably real lol

So many just giving up. Its kind of sad. I got married at age 30, so people should never give up.

more likely the effect is cultural- millenial men were raised by boomers who taught them that the way to find a partner was to have wealth and be nice, so they did those things

but modern culture has shifted. women work, and those things are now the bare minimum, and more is expected, but men who didn't form lasting bonds with other men had no one to teach them what actually attracted women in their youth

confidence and experience snowball, so those who fall behind early on in life never truly catch up, though they can catch up enough to find a partner if they focus on self-improvement

but now we also have this ultra-toxic secondary culture (which of course gets its foot in the door by telling men the correct things to do for self-improvement--get a physical and mental hobby) that tells them how the women they do find are actually just using them and will divorce them later (nevermind that they tend to have little to be used for) so they wind up turning into fascists that exude the 'stay away' vibes