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| Topic | Are you 30+ years old and still single? |
| haloiscoolisbak 08/30/22 10:26:59 AM #75: | bsp77 posted... Confidence helps a ton and is not "alpha". However, I do agree that being confident when you aren't confident is impossible. So you aren't wrong regarding being honest, respectful and kind, but don't be nice to the point of agreeing with everything. Be your own person. As success happens, even if just a few dates, confidence will rise. Well yeah, that comes under honesty. By kind I don't mean agreeing with everything, I mean like, I dunno. Smile, be friendly. No rudeness. And yeah obviously being confident is great, but if you tell yourself "gotta be confident, gotta be confident" you'll just overthink to oblivion. I'm basing this on what I thought I had to be as a 28 yr old virgin and then realising I was better off just fucking forgetting the word ever existed Words are powerful and that word in particular I felt is shoehorned into every bit of dating advice experienced people give to the inexperienced --- Started from the bottom now we here ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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