Gremlynn posted... none of that contradicts anything I've said.
You've clearly never had somewhere you HAVE to be with a strict deadline immediately after work. You've never had to race to the daycare after work to make sure you don't get charged extra fees you can't afford for a late pickup, or get your second job or your classes straight from work with barely enough time to commute, let alone feed yourself on the way. You've clearly never had to race home because your spouse's car is in the shop and they need yours to get to their job on time.
You assume those few minutes are just the first few of wide open personal time because, like I said, your life has never ACTUALLY been busy.
Thats a weird melty youre having. Those extra few mins not being a big deal must have been a big trigger for you. You make some pretty big assumptions based on that lol.