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carpediempimp posted...

oh I mean your not very far off intimacy is lacking, is not just 0 like people think it is

even then we dont kiss often, and she genuinely weird about holding hands and most of our more intimate plans get canceled, it does honestly seem intentional.
but Im not sure if Im just perceiving it as intentional, I admittedly take things that of happened between us personal that arent really targeted towards me.

So she either isn't into you enough or she has severe intimacy issues that she isn't addressing. Either way, that does not bode well.

But her specifically, shes kind thats the most noteworthy thing about her but shes genuinely kind. I typically date bad bitch aesthetic if you get what Im trying to say and while shes just as attractive as them (Her body is crazy honestly) shes so kind and humble and genuinely a good person and she typically light up my day.

we were just a natural fit like interest wise we had just so much in common coming into our friendship that we instantly clicked, its extremely easy for us to talk for hours, when we met I tried to hook her up with my friend whos closer to her age and I was trying to date her friend that was closer to my age, and they just didnt work out, we where talking and she mentioned how she prefers to date men my age anyway and weve started looking at it other romantically ever since.

Man, I feel bad for you. Those are legit reasons. I have certainly had my share of "bad bitches" so to speak, but she certainly doesn't have a monopoly or being genuinely kind. I have dated a few genuinely kind women, including my current gf.

My advice, if it matters, would be to keep her as a friend, but start looking elsewhere. In time, you will either find someone else who checks all of the important boxes, or your current situation will either resolve itself, for better or worse. This is definitely a "don't put all your eggs in one basket" situation.