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I'll give you the best advice you'll ever hear. Start working a retail job part time. That will not only boost your confidence tenfold, but it will force you to stop giving a shit about what others think about you.

I was a wreck prior to entering retail. I couldn't even look people in the eyes, let alone talk to them. 6 months into a cashier job I was looking at people, 12 months I was having regular conversations, 18 months and it was like I never had issues to begin with. You learn from putting yourself into positions where you are extremely uncomfortable in the first place. Some people it comes naturally, others it takes time.

Just like dating. If you aren't good at it, force yourself into a position where you have to talk to people your attracted to. It'll be a pain in the ass at first, but after a few months you'll gradually start building up confidence.

Some of the most confident people in the world are ugly ass pick up artists. Because they have tricked their brain to not process failure. 1000 women might turn them down, but there will always be that 1.