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TopicTips to increase self confidence?
shrimptempura
07/04/22 1:45:16 AM
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Thanks everyone, for your insights.

For me, I've got a pretty deccent life. Didn't have a hard time growing up and have a few brothers/sisters I connect with. A fiance I love and believe she loves me.

But all my life I've just lacked self confidence. In who I was, in my job, etc.

I do go to the gym, and that helps me feel good about myself in some areas.

But for example, at my job, I feel confident in some things I do, but if I was going to be on an interview for a promotion, I have no idea how to talk myself up because I feel like I'm nothing special.

I don't really feel like anything in my life that I'm interested in, I'm an expert in. Even my interests, I feel like I could never speak to anything as an expert on something.

In new experiences and meeting new people I constantly feel like I have to impress them or live up to something and that my menial existence just won't be good enough. I don't really know how tto change this thinking to feeling confident in myself and exuding it out to people when I meet them, if that makes sense.

Like if I were to meet you on the street today and talk to you about who I am, I have no idea where to start in explaining anything great about myself

And just to be clear- I'm not depressed or feel like my life is bad or anything. I just really don't know how to not feel like I'm so very unremarkable in so many ways, if that make sense
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