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The thing is you can't blame having a bad social life on how unfair Tinder is. So that definitely should be the focus on it first.

We're all in our own boats and situation when it comes to social relationships. Focusing on how much easier others may potentially have it doesn't really help.

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The point is there are many. Money, job, hobbies, stable mental health, etc.

There are numerous things out there that can make things easier or more difficult.

But this board focuses on women and dating apps. Because many users on this board barely have a life outside of the internet and struggle to relate to women. So that's what they focus on.

KogaSteelfang posted...

Which of those 2 will be more likely to find someone they click with? Same situation between both, they both got matches and messages. They both lined up dates. They both successfully went in the date and both decided to look for someone else.

I don't think Tinder is a great way to meet people personally but whatever.

When it comes to dating apps then yes women have an advantage. But being bombarded by messages from horny men has its own issues.

KogaSteelfang posted...

And getting rejected over, and over, and over until he finds someone. He has to learn to become numb to it, then get it thrown in his face that he's not emotionally invested. There's no incentive for him to care about who he picks up because he's just going around till someone says ok. Then it's held against him(and men in general). While she's just hanging out, and turning people away.

It's not about being numb to it. It's about learning to pick up when women aren't attracted to you and figuring out that it really isn't a big deal at all.

Hoodroar posted...

But there are plenty examples of passive men doing this stuff and still not finding themselves in any intimate scenarios since just being present isn't sufficient for men.

And they likely make up a lot of the 12 men being complained about in the topic.

Doing what stuff?

It doesn't matter if the woman in the OP didn't connect with them.

This may come as a shock to you but most people aren't compatible with each other.