Well whatever, I don't really want to feel used or simplified down to a few parts for people to use or to just be some object for everyone treated like whatever anyone wants by everyone else anymore~ ugh especially not a bf I'm supposed to be with
This entire topic is why I call you naive.
Any NORMAL man is going to want sex, usually by the 2nd or 3rd date. I guarantee if a guy is interested in you and you tell them you don't do sexual stuff, he will drop you immediately.
The ONLY way you are going to find someone that works for you is try to find someone who is asexual, or a real religious boy that wants to wait till marriage. Even if you wait till marriage, that religious boy is GOING TO WANT SEX.
Let me state for clarity: ALL GUYS WANT SEX, THE ONLY EXCEPTION ARE ASEXUAL ONES. If you are not prepared to have sex then you just cut your dating pool down to 10% of what you could get IF YOU ARE LUCKY. Believing in a bullshit idea, like "the right guy will wait as long as i need" is about as ignorant as you could possibly be.
This is just the truth of the matter. I'm not saying to go whore yourself out to every guy, but don't actually expect to get in a real relationship w/o sex.
Pro Tip: One of the reasons long distance relationships rarely work is because there is no PHYSICAL intimacy...
LittleRoyal
2nd date you still hardly know the person. And you're very wrong. Because I've told people I don't want sexual stuff and they still dated me l for a while.
Yes I don't want the kind of guy that only cares about sex and at the 2nd date expects me to go that far. That is just ridiculous to act like every relationship needs to be that way
I agree. If you dont want sex, you dont want it. May be hard to find a guy that doesn't, but it is possible. ---
