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Topic	So I told my fiance she was fat last night and I need to know if she plans on
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:03:31 PM #62:	Mister_Spyker posted... HypnoCoosh posted... voldothegr8 posted... There's no way this happened or you'd be single right now. Why not. Why are we not allowed to be honest with our significant others? We have this fucked up idea that we have to not be honest because of other peoples feelings. I think it's important to be honest about our feelings. There's a difference between being honest and being rude. You are being extremely disrespectful to the woman you say you love, if I knew a man was talking like that to a daughter of mine, I'd want him kicked out of our family. You can say things and be extremely honest, that doesn't hurt people's feelings. Now when you lack tact and are completely blunt and selfish then you don't deserve her or anyone else. Look at you, you want her to get in shape because you want her body to look good to you. That is horribly selfish and honestly disgusting. Learn some respect. I already had this conversation with her before though. And she's rude because if she doesn't want to change just say so because I have a right to know what to expect from her in this regard if I'm devoting my life to her. I told her it's not fun for me walking around resenting her because she is fat and doesn't try. I'm not happy and was being honest I have the right to do so and she needs to make up her mind. Fat and alone or healthy and happy in a relationship. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185637] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mister_Spyker posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>voldothegr8 posted...</cite> <quote>There's no way this happened or you'd be single right now.</quote> Why not. Why are we not allowed to be honest with our significant others? We have this fucked up idea that we have to not be honest because of other peoples feelings. I think it's important to be honest about our feelings.</quote> There's a difference between being honest and being rude. You are being extremely disrespectful to the woman you say you love, if I knew a man was talking like that to a daughter of mine, I'd want him kicked out of our family. You can say things and be extremely honest, that doesn't hurt people's feelings. Now when you lack tact and are completely blunt and selfish then you don't deserve her or anyone else. Look at you, you want her to get in shape because you want her body to look good to you. That is horribly selfish and honestly disgusting. Learn some respect.</quote> I already had this conversation with her before though. And she's rude because if she doesn't want to change just say so because I have a right to know what to expect from her in this regard if I'm devoting my life to her. I told her it's not fun for me walking around resenting her because she is fat and doesn't try. I'm not happy and was being honest I have the right to do so and she needs to make up her mind. Fat and alone or healthy and happy in a relationship. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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