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I don't want to be in a relationship. I had a great relationship, once a few years ago. I felt loved and cherished and I loved and cherished him. Stuff happens and I lost him (death). I feel the love still and choose to be alone. I've accepted that and I'm content with it. I go out with friends all the time, I travel with friends, work a full time job, run/exercise daily. I don't sit around and feel sorry for myself. It's just the way I feel. I've had the best love of "my" life so why should I try and top it?

Recently I met a guy who asked me if I was in a relationship and I said "no" but I didn't explain any further as to why I didn't want to be in one as I consider it my private thing (private, and that's why I'm posting it on a public game board lol). I've taken to not answering his calls and I feel bad about it. I've decided I should probably try and explain to him because I don't want him thinking that I don't like him or any other crazy thing.

I love my close friends and my social groups. I love being alive. I can't change what happened and I have to deal with it, which I feel I am, in my own way. I just don't want to be in a relationship.