That goes without saying.....but indeed, it is 2017.... surgeries are getting so good now, it's easily hard to tell what is what...
if you cant tell then what's the difference
A female friend of mine had a bf who during sex with her changed out with his friend without telling her. The lights were out and she didn't figure it out until after it had happened.
But hey, she didn't notice when it was happening and she also never explicitly asked him before they started if he was going to swap in a friend, considering that would be a very statistically unlikely thing to need to ask someone first (just like trans people only making up 0.3% of the population) and hey if she cared about that happening she should've made sure to have them fill out a several page long questionnaire first because obviously that makes more sense than the dude just up front being like "most chicks wouldn't be interested in this, so I'll just make sure she knows what I want to do first and make sure she's cool with it." Nah that would be too easy it make too much sense, instead the deceitful person did nothing wrong and is actually the victim!
And who gives a f*** what someone's reasoning for not wanting to f*** a trans person is? If they don't want to, they don't want to and don't have to. When you're an outlier like trans people are, you should disclose it up front. That would be like if someone had a rare STD that only a fraction of a percent of the population has and then after you f***ed them they were like "lol, I knowing just gave you ________, but it's not my fault because you didn't ask if I had it or notice during sex."
Are you literally equating someone being transgender to a dude swapping out with his friend during sex
Holy f*** this board
No I'm using the definitions people are giving of what is and isn't rape ITT. Based on what other's have said here that wouldn't constitute rape because she didn't notice until after it happened and was told. If she didn't know, what does it matter?She should've asked first, there was no deception or deceit because she didn't ask first.
No you're introducing a completely different variable (not the same person) into the equation.
If you wanted to stay along the same "lines" you should have brought up someone with AIDs/HIV not telling someone until after they have sex. ---
