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Topic	Scenario: Your girlfriend's dad demands that you call him "Sir"
AdviceMan 07/10/17 2:40:56 PM #29:	HypnoCoosh posted... What type of buffoon would disrespect the father of a girl they are dating in that capacity? When someone who I am not subservient to in any capacity attempts to force me to be so, my response is to refuse to. I do not exert that sort of traditional cultural influence on other people, and therefore, I do not appreciate it when done to me. And if I acquiesce, we likely would have a bad relationship anyway. Better to get to it up front. He'll get respect by default. But demanding respect from someone you cannot extract it from is asking to lose it. --- "I'm not racist but, BLM sure did make me racist." -Skasa I'm just here to offer you advice, take it or leave it. <cite>AdviceMan posted [p:882664084] in Scenario: ... [t:75550411]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>What type of buffoon would disrespect the father of a girl they are dating in that capacity?</quote> When someone who I am not subservient to in any capacity attempts to force me to be so, my response is to refuse to. I do not exert that sort of traditional cultural influence on other people, and therefore, I do not appreciate it when done to me. And if I acquiesce, we likely would have a bad relationship anyway. Better to get to it up front. He'll get respect by default. But demanding respect from someone you cannot extract it from is asking to lose it. --- "I'm not racist but, BLM sure did make me racist." -Skasa I'm just here to offer you advice, take it or leave it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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