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Lord_Ogrim posted...

Have either of you made any attempt to spice things up, or to take interests in each others interest? Have you tried anything to rekindle that flame? I mean, if you aint feeling it then you aint feeling it, but you owe it to your kid at least to try.

Maybe you feel like different people at the moment than when you did when you got together. Maybe try and pretend like you aren't together. Flirt with her like she's that cute girl you saw on the Subway. Ask her out. Find out what she likes. Go see a movie and take her out to eat. Go to a theme park, ride a roller coast. Go skinny dipping in the creek. Do anything.

And if all else fails, you could try swinging.

I'll second this. All relationships can get complacent after a while. That's why you have to always try at it. Basically try and act the same way to her that you did when you first started dating. I'm constantly reminding myself in my marriage to do little things that show I'm affection. If I don't, my mind will be on complete cruise control for weeks at a time.

When is the last time you two had any time alone? Let someone look after your kid and you take her out on a romantic date? Or how about getting a new hobby together?
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