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The posts in this topic are making this a little more complicated than it really is.


I'm about to bet all the money in the world this post will be modded cuz its not PC to state facts of reality that are unpleasant, but when it comes to women there are certain things that are pretty much stereotypes or tropes that happen to be true for alot of women. Reverse psychology working too well on alot of them, and in this case, women always want something more when they know they can't have it. The ultimate form of that is a gay guy. There are women that literally go to gay clubs and try and turn gay guys straight, cuz in their minds its like the ultimate accomplishment and it'd be like a trophy to show off to every other woman they know (since women are insanely competitive with one another usually)


I have a good personal story regarding this: I was messing around with this girl for some months, we both didn't want anything serious so it was like fwb kinda stuff. She had a gay bff that lived in the same building a few doors down. One night she (100% sober) tells me she wants to pursue a serious relationship with me (said it on her own i didn't voice any desire for this so it was all her wanting it). I was totally all for it. The gay bff hears about it. Couple days later she texts me telling me the gay guy (he says hes "bi" but come on thats some wanting to have your cake and eat it too bs) comes out and says he's been in love with her forever etc blah blah blah. Meanwhile, he literally lives with his gay boyfriend, and has cheated on him a bunch of times and has a proven track record of infidelity. Despite her knowing all this, tells me "I haven't decided what i'm going to do" (as in, now our plans are up in the air because this clingy bi cheater ass baby decides he wants her now that she might have someone, even though he lives with his boyfriend and has someone and is a cheating pos anyway)

I flip and bring up his cheating and his lack of commitment and his going back and forth with guys and girls and ask her how she could possibly not be sure how to handle it, to just tell the guy they're friends and she doesnt wanna ruin that, and that I was seriously offended and disrespected i felt that she would legitimately consider him after she just made plans with me to pursue a serious relationship. It should be a no contest that he has no chance because we just made a commitment. She flips at me like hardcore like i'm the bad guy, then tries to act like she's gonna choose neither of us cuz she doesn't wanna be the bad guy. I'm just like yeah sorry you kinda just showed me how little you think of me that you were pondering just kicking me off to the side for a cheating bi dude that has all sorts of emotional and mental baggage, i'm out. She doesnt hit me up later to apologize or anything of the sort. In her mind her behavior is acceptable.

I come to see later she did end up getting with him, and literally got pregnant with his kid (this chick was a hardcore conservative girl, obsessed with safe sex and birth control, she was on the pill and still insisted on condoms and like vehemently defended it. Meanwhile second she lands her gay trophy guy she's immediately making sure she gets knocked up in the hopes he doesn't stray like he known to)


Moral of the story, some women have a very unusual hard on for gay guys, and have fantasies about turning them straight. In any relationship, you and your spouse should be each others #1 best friend. The fact that she seems to pay more attention to him than you, is a huge red flag. Talk is cheap, actions speak louder than words and her actions are saying quite alot. She wants to have her cake and eat it too, some women do this thing where they have multiple guys in their lives for different reasons/uses. To fill different needs (which i think is fucked and sociopathic). Shes trying to have it both ways. Not many women would tolerate a similar situation with the roles reversed.
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