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Topic | On a scale of 1-10 how bad should i feel for going through my gfs phone... |
The Deadpool 06/20/17 3:49:05 AM #61: | LookANinja posted... The Deadpool posted...LookANinja posted...I'm trying to assess how best to approach the situation. I have an idea that is somewhat morally questionable. That's two different things altogether: Don't bring up the fact she's attracted to other guys and that it bothers you. That's pointless. The problem there is on your end: she's going to be attracted to other guys. As long as doesn't act on it, any problems you have are on your own. Any solutions will have to come from you. You can't even ask her not to flaunt it in your face since you will just break into her phone and read it anyways... The other problem is a stagnant or boring sex life and that's something that you both need to work on. You can try changing the routine to spice things up, but you can also just sit down and talk to her about it. Don't bring up the other shit at all. If you're going to have that talk, a few common pitfalls to avoid a bigger argument: This isn't a you or her problem. It's both of you. Your probably bother causing it and you're probably bothe suffering from it. Remember that with how you word your sentences. Try to avoid making accusations, even accidentally. "It's like you don't even want me anymore" is far more likely to start argument, or merely be taken the wrong way, then "I'm not exactly feeling wanted sometimes" is, despite meaning functionally the same thing. The last thing you want is for her to go on the defensive. You don't want her to fix this problem, you want her to help you fix it. Present your grievances, sure, but ask her about hers too. Sexual compatibility is a serious thing. Sometimes two people get along great and the sex just doesn't work out. Sometimes the sex is great but people don't get along. I don't know you two, but understand that while this may just be a hurdle, it can also be a wall. It's not a pretty thought, but reality rarely is. Not saying you shouldn't try and fix shit, but be realistic about it. No harm, no foul. --- We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavors and furniture polish is made from real lemons. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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