she also said she was trying really hard to hold it in so i have reason to believe she was feeling it the whole time too.
then no worries
though if you want to play it safe let her say it first the next couple times while you say it with your actions
or how about you stop acting like 13 year olds having your first kiss and just stand by your actions
if you said you love your gf that you are dating for X amount of months, and you mean it, and she is deciding she no longer reciprocates after she told you she has the same feelings, why waste your time with this chick?
stupid shit like this should be left for middle school tbh, it really has no place in an adult relationship. you are only young for so long, shit or get off the pot (and this goes for all parties involved). dont waste your time with people who have to wait for the fucking second coming of Christ to understand their emotions.
Very good advice from a guy who hasn't been in a relationship in ages to give to a married man with kids ---