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Topic	Welp I just found out my girlfriend was dating another guy behind my back
drunkmuggle 05/07/17 2:24:53 PM #110:	legendarylemur posted... pinky0926 posted... Back_Stabbath posted... ITT: people that haven't been cheated on by people they actually care(d) about. Been there bud. It's been a year and a half and I finally think I'm starting to heal properly (like, to the point where thinking about it doesn't make me seethe with rage and sadness). Might feel like your world is over, but this s* is just part of life and it really does make you stronger in the end. A lot of people are saying don't dwell on it... as if it's that easy. You won't be able to help dwell on it if you felt any way like how I did. S* will rule your mind for a while. Just try not to let it destroy you. Read this post TC, and not many of the others. Sorry you were hurt, but you'll live, and you'll move on, and eventually you'll learn to love again. She sounds like a real piece of shit and not worthy. Not gonna lie, I did the same thing. How do you even not dwell? The mind will bring it back up again and again yup, there's literally no way you're not gonna dwell I got cheated on in a nearly 2 year relationship as well and it's hard not to dwell - it will consume your thoughts for a while if you weren't expecting it and you'll go through so many hoops trying to figure out where it went wrong and why. but do remember that it really is not a reflection on yourself as much as you may think it is because of what happened and whatever she might say. it's just justification in betraying someone's trust that they'll have convinced themselves of it'll take some time of you being in that state of mind before you start to feel any sort of clarity, just take it as best as you can and try not to get into a self destructive spiral, i.e. don't turn to destructive behaviors like self medicating or self harm. if you really feel like you need it you should talk to someone like a therapist so you have an unbiased third party to help you see things in a different perspective keep your head up @thrashmetal14, you'll get through it --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:878644384] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendarylemur posted...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Back_Stabbath posted...</cite> <quote>ITT: people that haven't been cheated on by people they actually care(d) about. Been there bud. It's been a year and a half and I finally think I'm starting to heal properly (like, to the point where thinking about it doesn't make me seethe with rage and sadness). Might feel like your world is over, but this s* is just part of life and it really does make you stronger in the end. A lot of people are saying don't dwell on it... as if it's that easy. You won't be able to help dwell on it if you felt any way like how I did. S* will rule your mind for a while. Just try not to let it destroy you.</quote> Read this post TC, and not many of the others. Sorry you were hurt, but you'll live, and you'll move on, and eventually you'll learn to love again. She sounds like a real piece of shit and not worthy.</quote> Not gonna lie, I did the same thing. How do you even not dwell? The mind will bring it back up again and again</quote> yup, there's literally no way you're not gonna dwell I got cheated on in a nearly 2 year relationship as well and it's hard not to dwell - it will consume your thoughts for a while if you weren't expecting it and you'll go through so many hoops trying to figure out where it went wrong and why. but do remember that it really is not a reflection on yourself as much as you may think it is because of what happened and whatever she might say. it's just justification in betraying someone's trust that they'll have convinced themselves of it'll take some time of you being in that state of mind before you start to feel any sort of clarity, just take it as best as you can and try not to get into a self destructive spiral, i.e. don't turn to destructive behaviors like self medicating or self harm. if you really feel like you need it you should talk to someone like a therapist so you have an unbiased third party to help you see things in a different perspective keep your head up @thrashmetal14, you'll get through it --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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