She has some serious jealousy issues, and if they have been an on going issue in the relationship you need work these out ASAP cause they are no little thing. Go to a relationship consoler cause she is only going to get worse, the job is a perfect example.
It has been like blocking girls from Facebook or the situation occurring. It might be dumb of me to say, but I'm not letting some man/woman in on our relationship. She's the one with these problems, shouldn't she go to therapy? And if it even gets that far where she needs therapy to deal with her jealousy issues, I won't wanna deal with it.
Is this a relationship? Like, what the hell, man? You're supposed to be together, especially in things like these. There is no longer my problems and her problems, they're all your (plural) problems when you're with someone, and if you don't commit to that attitude and mindset, then you can forget about ever having a healthy relationship. If this issue affects the two of you, then you need to go to a counselor, because from the looks of it, you have a ton of issues that you need to work out. If not a counselor, then you guys need to take some time to sit down with each other and have an honest chat, otherwise this will end badly. Sitting on these type of problems won't make them go away, so be a man and face this, or turn tail and run from this if you don't love this woman, because you're doing her a massive disservice if you keep up this half-hearted approach to your relationship. You're either in or out, love is a decision that you have to make, not just a feeling when everything is ok. 7+ years is something to hold onto, don't just give up because it's hard, do the right thing and BE HUMBLE! Don't you dare shift the blame to her for this stuff, in a relationship you're both responsible for everything.
I completely understand your point. I agree this is an "US" problem. She's just not willling to compromise. Being together for 7 years is exactly why I haven't bailed out yet. We built this relationship and she's not a bad person. It's this whole jealousy problem that she has. When we tried talking, she doesn't bring up valid points. Just the "If you work there, I won't be ok with it". That angers me because I've been in situations where I could've easily cheated without her knowing, but I'm an honest person. We could go to counselors or whatever, but it's HER that has the issues. What else can I do? Tried talking nicely, tried telling her there's nothing to worry about, but she's just not willing to compromise. Maybe she knows I'm a decent looking person and girls will find me attractive, but as I said...I'm too old/mature to be dealing with little kid shit, cheating, bringing drama and such. ---