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Topic	Girlfriend doesn't want me getting a job because of female workers.
DontHateMe 04/12/17 9:12:22 PM #70:	kewldude475 posted... DontHateMe posted... kewldude475 posted... Is this a good job? Do you not have other job opportunities present? If no to both I'd say just get a different job if you really like/love this girl. The way things are nowadays it's easy to see why she'd be concerned. A person such as myself, yes, it's a good job that will allow me to pay bills and other responsibilities while allowing me to save. I'm working a job that's not worth it to me now, I've had 2 other interviews with no luck. The fact that this job is easily attainable after being stressed with no luck from the others...why should I pass it up because of her jealousy issues? She herself knows about my job struggles, so why be against something that will ultimately help US out in the end? In which case I would definitely take the job and explain to her that she's more than enough for you and that you aren't worried about the other girls at the job. That is the case right? Exactly. And that's the problem. The way I view my current relationship status is im trying to settle now. I'm not looking to cheat, bring drama or whatever. Every time I tell her, her response is something along the lines of "If you take the job, I'm NOT gonna be alright with it". The fact that I'm trying to settle, I DONT want to settle with her if this is how she's responding. That's why I feel stuck. I want to settle, but with the way she's acting, it turns me off from that idea. And if I don't settle with her, I rather save myself the time and not get involved with relationships that deeply. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877086286] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>kewldude475 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>kewldude475 posted...</cite> <quote>Is this a good job? Do you not have other job opportunities present? If no to both I'd say just get a different job if you really like/love this girl. The way things are nowadays it's easy to see why she'd be concerned.</quote> A person such as myself, yes, it's a good job that will allow me to pay bills and other responsibilities while allowing me to save. I'm working a job that's not worth it to me now, I've had 2 other interviews with no luck. The fact that this job is easily attainable after being stressed with no luck from the others...why should I pass it up because of her jealousy issues? She herself knows about my job struggles, so why be against something that will ultimately help US out in the end?</quote> In which case I would definitely take the job and explain to her that she's more than enough for you and that you aren't worried about the other girls at the job. That is the case right?</quote> Exactly. And that's the problem. The way I view my current relationship status is im trying to settle now. I'm not looking to cheat, bring drama or whatever. Every time I tell her, her response is something along the lines of "If you take the job, I'm NOT gonna be alright with it". The fact that I'm trying to settle, I DONT want to settle with her if this is how she's responding. That's why I feel stuck. I want to settle, but with the way she's acting, it turns me off from that idea. And if I don't settle with her, I rather save myself the time and not get involved with relationships that deeply. --- Too Complicated.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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