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PrivateBiscuit1 posted...

TheRock1525 posted...

Well I guess I choose empathy with a woman having stuff stolen from her instead of feeling the need to criticize and saying she deserves to be made fun of over it. Not that there isn't other criticisms to be levied here (once again, bad move trying to pass the blame on Maddox) but I don't have any desire to dog pile for the sake of "cause she did other bad stuff too!"

Bro. You seriously keep misrepresenting what I am saying. I am saying she was asking for it with the way she's been acting. I don't condone it, I'm not saying she deserves a lot of what happened, but I'm not going to pretend like she did absolutely nothing to warrant the abuse she got over it. Does it balance the bad will that she's garnered? Probably not. But if you keep being a total ass, then eventually it's going to come back around on you.

But that's kind of the issue: there's are two absolutely mutually exclusive things. Her erratic behavior shouldn't give people carte blanche to then use it as an excuse to mock and bully her when she actually is a victim.

You keep wanting to come back to "I don't condone it buuuuuuuuuuuuut..." when it should be just "I don't condone it and it was wrong. I don't like Paige, I think her behavior is irresponsible and she's going to have problems going forward, but what happened to her is wrong and we should be above using it as an excuse to criticize her."

I feel like that's the only response to this. Don't criticize but allow caveats to justify awful behavior from people.
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