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Well it's been a whole day now, and the shock is gone but naturally most of the pain is still there. I talked with her daughter for a while today. As the one who had been caring for her since we separated she told me more about exactly how sick my ex had been, at one point being moved to an assisted living facility. Maybe I should feel bad for not seeing it, but she was always so cheery and in good spirits.

As spiritual people my stepdaughter then told me to see it a different way, she isn't sick anymore and she gets to be with her parents and younger brother again. Which is how I choose to see things, she isn't sick in a bed in some care facility, she can be everywhere now.