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Topic	So I spoke with my ex today.
gamepimp12 10/15/24 12:18:24 PM #62:	MotaroRIP619 posted... Oh sounds really weird hes kinda wrong about that one of the reasons we never became official is because I didnt want to have a girlfriend who was going to leave state for med school.. Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted... Sounds like she was (rightfully so) put into a position of choosing between two potential partners and made it clear through her actions that she was going to prioritize this other relationship over the potential relationship with you. But it's also interesting how at some point from your perspective you two were talking about having kids and marriage and whatnot while it also never being the most serious relationship? Just in my limited scope it kinda feels like the two of you were always figuring out if you were just "an option" for one another or the relationship you wanted to take that leap into with the kind of dedication, trust, and love that traditional monogamous relationships need. Sucks when the relationship doesn't work out regardless though. So thats because of two things. Her own trauma causes her to self sabotage among other things. I didnt feel ready for that step financially. so we would talk about marriage and kids but it would be at this nebulous point in the future. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:982537367] in So I spoke... [t:80865569]...</cite> <quote>MotaroRIP619 posted... </cite><quote>Oh sounds really weird</quote>hes kinda wrong about thatone of the reasons we never became official is because I didnt want to have a girlfriend who was going to leave state for med school..Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted... </cite><quote>Sounds like she was (rightfully so) put into a position of choosing between two potential partners and made it clear through her actions that she was going to prioritize this other relationship over the potential relationship with you.But it's also interesting how at some point from your perspective you two were talking about having kids and marriage and whatnot while it also never being the most serious relationship? Just in my limited scope it kinda feels like the two of you were always figuring out if you were just "an option" for one another or the relationship you wanted to take that leap into with the kind of dedication, trust, and love that traditional monogamous relationships need.Sucks when the relationship doesn't work out regardless though.</quote>So thats because of two things.Her own trauma causes her to self sabotage among other things. I didnt feel ready for that step financially.so we would talk about marriage and kids but it would be at this nebulous point in the future. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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