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Topic	coworker just surprised me with a gift and i had to tell him off :(
Dungeater 06/28/24 3:57:48 PM #67:	Tyranthraxus posted... There's a problem here that I just can't reconcile. 1. You feel bad accepting gifts. 2. You feel bad telling people you can't accept gifts. I don't understand how you do both those things at the same time. i dont understand how these arent reconcilable? someone does something nice that i dont want, i tell them truthfully i dont want that, they are understandably disappointed, and i am understandably remiss at having disappointed them, yet still glad i stated my boundary --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him <cite>Dungeater posted [p:981063762] in coworker j... [t:80799520]...</cite> <quote>Tyranthraxus posted... </cite><quote>There's a problem here that I just can't reconcile.1. You feel bad accepting gifts.2. You feel bad telling people you can't accept gifts.I don't understand how you do both those things at the same time.</quote>i dont understand how these arent reconcilable? someone does something nice that i dont want, i tell them truthfully i dont want that, they are understandably disappointed, and i am understandably remiss at having disappointed them, yet still glad i stated my boundary --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all.He/Him</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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