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projectpat72988 posted...

Why would you spend thousands on a girl you're not in a relationship with? I mean damn. I've bought some lil shit off a wishlist for fun but....a few grand? Nah

How did she bring up a relationship with you last?? Because none of this really makes sense. Seems the only thing she's done for you is leave the door open to buy more shit.

So, like right around the time we started to transition from friends to romantic, I got a promotion and started seeing the most money Ive ever seen in my life, and since then Ive doubled that amount.

I make almost enough to completely support a family of 4 on my pay check alone (which is what I considering basic financial success)

because of that I didnt mind spending money on her, she worked really hard and was always the extremely responsible type, and I wanted her to have the nice things she wanted.

I was willing to spend that money on her because she hardly ever asked for anything,I could afford too, and I trusted her because she was every honest and upfront about everything (she still is for the most part, she a terrible liar which is why I noticed immediately). She also was doing the heavy lifting in our relationship originally, driving the 2 hours to see me pretty frequently.

When we went on that most recent date,(after not speaking for almost a year) that she drove two hours to. I apologized for the mixed messages I had been giving her in the past and how I wasnt clear with the fact that I loved her but wanted her to get her life in order first, and how it caused a lot of confusion. And she apologized becausecas things where perceived to be getting more serious, she got scared and she got more distant, which I feel like was a result of me, not being clear in the first place.

after we clear the air about that we talked about her finally moving home and what that would look like and she brought up a conversation about us being willing to try again in more favorable conditions.

the situation doesnt make sense to most of yall cause yall are looking at it as she either likes me or she doesnt.

when her feelings for me have changed pretty frequently and her actions have as a result.

Shes always liked me to some degree, (sometimes a lot sometimes not so much) things originally where moving too fast for her and now its a lot of baggage.