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Haejin posted...

I've seen it happen to multiple women, they claim they will never settle, get into their thirties then settle for a guy who's divorced and has grown kids already lmao

That doesn't mean they "settled" though. As you date and have relationships, it helps you get a better feel for what kind of partner you want (and what kind you don't). Not everyone sees being divorced or already having kids as negatives. That man may have exactly the kind of traits she wants in a partner.

BoomerKuwanger posted...

They should make a dating app for divorced people with kids to meet each other and another NMNK app.

They do have a few apps for single parents out there, like Stir. I actually tried that one. The problem though, was that it's a shitty site that pulls profiles from other sites. So half the people you message won't ever respond because they're using a completely different site. Like one woman updated her profile to say that she won't be logging on anymore because "I found my match here on match." but I was logged on to Stir, not match. Stopped using that shit site after realizing that.

But most of the big dating apps let you filter by whether your matches have kids, as well as whether or not they want kids. Most people won't try to hide the fact that they want kids.

Actually I wouldn't be surprised if both those things already exist, but my dating app experience has been that (if you're straight) if it's not Tinder, Hinge or Bumble, don't even fucking bother

Sure those are the main 3 if you're using the free sites. But if you're looking for a serious relationship, Match and eHarmony are great for filtering out the people that aren't that serious about it. Met my girlfriend on eHarmony 2 years ago and things have been amazing. We both see this relationship going the distance