LogFAQs > #979996547

Who doesn't want their potential S/O to be mature, smart, careered, financially stable, has their own crib, to be good looking and all the positive things? But we gotta be realistic. Finding all that in a person is prolly gonna be rare, IMO. And even if you do find a person like that who is interested in you, whose to say they don't have other flaws that comes with it that can turn you off?

I just think people need to lower their standards to a more reasonable point because it's more common that people will have their struggles, have flaws and have baggage's.

You know, whenever I hear happy couples talk about their spouses it's usually something like "I'm only here because of my better half. They supported me when I was down and still loved and believed in me when I wasn't so sure of myself". Maybe your S/O is waiting for you to give them a chance and vice versa?