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TopicThese are "virginity statistics" according to Open AI
Punished_Blinx
04/09/24 10:23:44 PM
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pikakaeru posted...
maybe im just saying its not a messed up desire

I never called it a messed up desire. I called it a fantasy.

People can want a 40 year old nerd woman virgin all they like. Sure maybe some exist out there. But do they live nearby? Why are they a 40 year old virgin and why would they go for a 40 year old virgin man? How are they going to meet?

People and relationships aren't some checklist that someone is going to just magically appear and live up to. These are people who have their own lives, wants, desires, shortcomings etc. If you are someone who absolutely cannot compromise over anything or get anxious over the most basic social tasks then chances are the hopes for a relationship are dead before they have even started.

Because this hypothetical person isn't a goal or a realistic standard. It's a fantasy for someone who fantasizes about getting into a relationship with someone who has the exact same hobbies and shortcomings so they don't need to do anything to improve as a person or give any effort. The reality is a relationship is constantly about compromise, improving and trying.

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