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Topic	These are "virginity statistics" according to Open AI
haloiscoolisbak 04/08/24 8:04:11 PM #59:	loafy013 posted... Went from being afraid of girls saying no to asking them out (in high school), to being afraid of them saying yes due to my lack of experience (college and beyond), to accepting that I'm single and fine with it and not really thinking about it anymore. Wouldn't say the situation makes me happy or unhappy. Its just a part of my life, same as my job or hobbies. That "being afraid of them saying yes" hits so hard for me. I spent ages 17-20 in this weird semi confident but not really state because I'd made out with a few girls but hadn't gone further yet so the first part of dating had become easy and automatic but the next step felt impossible. I screwed up so many situations from being afraid to be vulnerable and just admit I was a virgin. Looking back it's so funny I thought being 20 and a virgin was some huge shocking thing, obviously dumb peers of mine using virgin as an insult (not at me but in front of me) didn't help --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:979810509] in These are ... [t:80741096]...</cite> <quote>loafy013 posted... </cite><quote>Went from being afraid of girls saying no to asking them out (in high school), to being afraid of them saying yes due to my lack of experience (college and beyond), to accepting that I'm single and fine with it and not really thinking about it anymore.Wouldn't say the situation makes me happy or unhappy. Its just a part of my life, same as my job or hobbies.</quote>That "being afraid of them saying yes" hits so hard for me. I spent ages 17-20 in this weird semi confident but not really state because I'd made out with a few girls but hadn't gone further yet so the first part of dating had become easy and automatic but the next step felt impossible. I screwed up so many situations from being afraid to be vulnerable and just admit I was a virgin. Looking back it's so funny I thought being 20 and a virgin was some huge shocking thing, obviously dumb peers of mine using virgin as an insult (not at me but in front of me) didn't help --- Started from the bottom now we here</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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