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CommonStar posted...

I am sorry you are in this position. I've been through this a couple times and the advice that darkmaian23 gave is worth listening to. Right now seems difficult but it will get a lot harder when she begins to deteriorate further. The escape plan is a must. I don't care what excuses your family members have, you need to talk to them and split the work. You cannot shoulder this on your own. If they are unwilling, you need to look for options such as senior care. Get in contact with your local government and see what assistances they can offer you. You do not want to be stuck being the sole caregiver in their final year or months. It is the most mentally and physically draining thing.

im not completely alone my older 27 yr old cousin does live here too but he works such long grueling hours he doesnt say as much as me to my nana and those 2 arent anywhere near as close considering he only came to live with us after an argument with his mother at 14 years old sometimes he can be cool and nice though idk hes pretty detached from both his mum and our nana