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Senta posted...

Strokes can fuck you up like that.
Never know how someone will come out of them. My grandmother had one, and for a while, this woman who never cursed, just cursed everyone out when they tried to talk to her. Then one day, a switch flipped and she was normal; and when told about what she had been saying, she was horrified. To her, she had been talking normal during all those times.

My mom had one, and when from being a confident, take no shit person to being very..just timid and not quite herself. About a year passed, and just in the middle of doing something..She flipped back to her old self.

So, don't give up hope. There is a chance she can go back to how she was, and it's very possible that when she apologizes, it's parts of her trying to come back. Otherwise, my advice is talk to a professional. As someone who spent my late teens and early twenties caring for my near bedridden grandmother... You can't ignore your own health and needs for someone else for so long without it making you bitter.

She also contradicts herself on her thoughts so damn much too and flips her opinion all the time my cousin who is closet racist to people from Pakistan not me was talking about immigrants and she was like agreeing with him that we need less ethnic people besides white people. She would not agree with that wtf!!
She said to sink the boat to stop them coming and drown them
I hope she can do that but she was better 3 months after the shock of a stroke than nowadays and she's getting worse now.
I have my freetime chilling rn cos I'm on easter college break I do care for myself as a person who cracked up in a psych ward in 2017 for stress and paranoia. I'm proud now I have a reason to go mental I haven't yet