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Topic	I'm really torn about how I want to handle my situation with my ex.
gamepimp12 04/06/24 8:25:01 PM #34:	thronedfire2 posted... post #14 is a pretty obvious admission that you only want input from people who will make you feel better pretty big assumption. Wrong though. I only value input from people I actually respect, if they make me feel better isnt what I need. [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Oh my friends who dont know her dont like her. and our mutual Friends either think we shouldnt be speaking at all or that we should be just friends because anything else right now is causing both of us too much stress. (She has had pretty frequent panic attacks about both our arguments and our situation) they also acknowledge shes young and the timings off and I might be waiting another 2 years for her to be as mature as she would need of be. NoxObscuras posted... Dude, trust me, stop waiting for her to "become a better person." I was with my ex for nearly 10 years and I kept thinking that the immature parts of her personality would "get better." They didn't. We had a kid together and she was still just as immature as she was when she was 20. Hell, even now being a co-parent with my ex, she's gonna be 33 soon and still does a lot of the same immature stuff she used to do. You could very well be "waiting" for this girl until she's well into her 40's or older. Don't do that to yourself. Stop dwelling on her, move on with your life. thats exactly where Im at. I have a date with someone else in like an hour. Ive kinda moved on waiting on her to be more mature, the last few times we spoke I was a little disappointed at her progress, she grew up but not as fast as I wanted her to. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:979772339] in I'm really... [t:80740775]...</cite> <quote>thronedfire2 posted... </cite><quote>post #14 is a pretty obvious admission that you only want input from people who will make you feel better</quote>pretty big assumption. Wrong though.I only value input from people I actually respect, if they make me feel better isnt what I need.<cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Oh my friends who dont know her dont like her.and our mutual Friends either think we shouldnt be speaking at all or that we should be just friends because anything else right now is causing both of us too much stress. (She has had pretty frequent panic attacks about both our arguments and our situation)they also acknowledge shes young and the timings off and I might be waiting another 2 years for her to be as mature as she would need of be.NoxObscuras posted... </cite><quote>Dude, trust me, stop waiting for her to "become a better person." I was with my ex for nearly 10 years and I kept thinking that the immature parts of her personality would "get better." They didn't. We had a kid together and she was still just as immature as she was when she was 20. Hell, even now being a co-parent with my ex, she's gonna be 33 soon and still does a lot of the same immature stuff she used to do.You could very well be "waiting" for this girl until she's well into her 40's or older. Don't do that to yourself. Stop dwelling on her, move on with your life.</quote>thats exactly where Im at. I have a date with someone else in like an hour. Ive kinda moved on waiting on her to be more mature, the last few times we spoke I was a little disappointed at her progress, she grew up but not as fast as I wanted her to. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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