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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...

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Yeah this just sunk, you metaphorically strangled the personal interaction & you might as well move on now. I feel like I need to be a relationship counselor sometimes because holy shit do gamers need to learn how to speak to women better.

Here's a demo:
"Hi *blank*, I've wanted to talk to you more & get to know you better since we started talking, & I'm wondering if you'd be interested in getting coffee with me in the coming week?"

"Oh coffee? Sure we could do that, but I might be working & the cold is making it hard to get around without me freezing my ass off on the bike ."

"If you don't mind me doing so, I'd be happy to pick you up at a location you feel safe waiting for me at, & we can go to the shop from there?"

"That would honestly be really helpful, does *blank location* work?"

"Yeah! I can probably swing by there, do you think around 5:00 PM works for the time, & you give me the day that works best for you?"

"Sure 5 PM sounds doable, how about this Wednesday there?"

"Sounds like a plan :) looking forward to it *name here*."

Transition into talking about one another, then ask about her day, her work, interests, show that you're taking steps to learn about her background before you meet so you have a rough outline of how the conversation will go in person. & If you don't have a vehicle to use, then honestly you shouldn't be trying to date if you don't even have a decent cheap car to get around, because doing Ubers & such constantly is not going to be feasible even if you get the times ironed out.