Watching/listening in on people in real life =/= reading someone's posts on the Internet.
If you're posting on the Internet, you should understand that anyone can read or view your posts. That's just part of it. They don't have to participate if they don't want to.
But hey. If it still creeps you out, I suppose that's your thing and I can't really criticize you for it.
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