Question: instead of "faking it 'til you making it," why not just actually become alpha? This is what I've never understood about the other side; I personally enjoy being socially dominant and in-control, and I have no reservations using and exploiting people for this purpose.
--
Houston Texans: 5-3
If you have to put it in one word, it's lackofexecution.-- Ravens H.C. on loss to Jags