People should continually work to improve themselves. That doesn't mean they should completely change who they are.
This is a completely arbitrary distinction. For some people, improving courtship skills is "changing who one is"; for others, it's not. All you're doing is trying to deflect the question behind an empty sentiment.
literally needing self assurance on a post....maybe youre a beta too.....
Maybe. Better a beta here than an abject loser everywhere.
I can still maintain a respectful approach to women and better myself as a person. I can become a better me and not turn into a manipulative, sex-centric douchebag.
Tying this in to what I said above, you've established that improving your courtship skills constitutes "changing yourself" instead of "improving yourself." Again, going back to what I said earlier- which you still haven't bothered to respond to- that's fine; just don't expect many women along the way. And again, what makes your principles so great? Are they really worth sacrificing a potentially blissful union? Are you that shallow?
No one said you need to "completely" change who you are. But changes are definitely needed.
Well said. It's naive to think otherwise.
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