"You need to act like more of a jerk" isn't constructive unless you're just trying to rope in easy sex.
That is so, so not what I was implying. Having a bit of a jerk side DOES help yes, and you'd be foolish to not believe it. But wow, you are truly incapable of taking any kind of helpfull advice aren't you?
Also I bet a vast majority of this board would kill for some "easy sex" whether they want to admit it or not.