There is a huge gap between trying to be as attractive as possible and not being a slob.
Maybe, but this can easily go overboard. Caring about looking nice is one thing; getting "prettied up" and fretting over small, irrelevant points of appearance is another. It's feminine and it's unattractive in a man. Caring enough is the key, and only enough.
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Houston Texans: 5-3
If you have to put it in one word, it's lackofexecution.-- Ravens H.C. on loss to Jags