I don't think many feminists would tell a woman she shouldn't have children. Feminism states that women shouldn't be expected to have children. There's a world of difference there.
The feminist freedom to not have children has coincided with the increasing economic and ecological pressurse to not have children; the two are not, I think, directly related.
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