Extha, I'm sure this thing has derailed, so I'm going to skip everything past your post.
The thing with Long Term Relationships is that you need MORE game for relationships than you do for random girls. Random girls just need you to pass basic Level 1 **** Tests like "I have a boyfriend" and "You seem like a player" or "What kind of girl do you think I am"
Random girls don't lie with you. They spend time with you once every 2 weeks. Your mystery is built in. Every time you're not with them they're wondering "I wonder what he's doing...probably with another girl."
Once you date a girl for a long time the mystery fades. They KNOW where you are and what you're doing. They know your little ins and outs and quirks. Your mystery slowly dies. You have to keep them interested somehow. This is why Long Term Relationships are usually the bane of men. They either become Doting Idiots and the girl eventually stays with them simply because girls love guys who dote, or they get dumped and don't know why so they become spiteful or self-deprecating.
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Realo won gold at the Sex Olympics with a BROKEN FRIGGIN NECK.-Voltch