To recruit Warlords, you have to land the finishing blow with one of your Warlords. Standard warriors won't do it. But many Warlords can't be recruited until post-game. The Chimchar guy is one of them.
And no, there's no reason to rush the main storyline. Later episodes will punish you if you're too slow, but the first story is basically like a tutorial.
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