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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 1:53:18 PM
#43
I've lost just about all of my passion posting here.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 7:52:27 AM
#41
CreekCo posted...
Really, most people only know family or friends they made through work or school. Meeting random strangers is tough... you have to put yourself out there and with the modern internet stuff like Facebook and such average people aren't even receptive to casual conversations in public. I was just talking about this yesterday at the movie theater... people avoid eye contact and any basic socialization skills whatsoever. It kinda pathetic, really.

You seem well liked here (even though people are kinda mean, it seems mainly in fun towards you). Lots of good advice in this thread and Chro's suggestion is a good one. It seems like for this generation, you go to college for connections and social media for hook ups.


Thank you
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 7:04:18 AM
#39
ChromaticAngel posted...
Going to be honest for a moment, I was once in your position, Scotty, but I managed to turn my life around anyway.

It's only when I started trying that I realized it's harder to give up and try to make do with what you've been handed instead of throwing away what you've been handed and making something better for yourself.


Didn't see this; thanks for the advice.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 6:27:01 AM
#37
ThePredominate posted...
Stop comparing yourself to other people. They're doing their stuff at their own pace, and you do it at yours. So what if you're not at the top of the ladder? Don't for a moment think you're a loser because that's when you really start to become one.


SSMajinVegeta2 posted...
@Scotty_Rogers
Life is bard but it's not impossible. Focus the energy from beating yourself up to improving your life.
You're young. Plenty of time to change things around but you need to do it soon


Thank you.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 5:43:34 AM
#34
True, but ah well. Maybe I'll get a job and meet people there or something.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 4:43:01 AM
#31
Conflict posted...
Scotty_Rogers posted...
No college for me.


Why?


I don't want to go back to a student's lifestyle.

cjsdowg posted...
Also have you tried Meetup .com


Nah, using sites to meet people never appealed to me. Seems unnatural.

Main_Account posted...
Even if you only spent all this time shit posting on message boards you've done a good job of it and you're a user who is known.

You may be thinking, "so what? That's the reason i'm a loser irl."

You are good at socializing and you have a personality even if it is a fake online one. It's gonna take some tweaking, time, and failures but you can absolutely translate this into real life. So many people are still figuring out who they are at 21. Hell I didn't feel comfortable with who I was until I was almost 24. The hardest part of getting out of this rut you're in is putting yourself out there the first few times. Find someone who you think would be willing to catch up and go get a drink or lunch. Once you break that uncomfortable part of getting out, it makes you want to get out more.

You da man Scotty.


SomeLikeItHoth posted...
FAM TRUST ME YOUR LIFE WILL TURN AROUND.

Apply to every job you can. When you get an interview just tell the manager you've never had a job before due to anxiety but you're trying to improve your life.

Having a girlfriend should be the last thing on your mind.

FOCUS ON YOURSELF FAM.


Thanks fam. Will try to take both of your advice.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 4:17:42 AM
#24
Go_Totodile posted...
So are you done shitting on Dragon Ball and Sonic while apparently watching/playing literally everything in those series?


Pretty much. Those things just make me feel like a big manchild now.


Zurkon posted...
:( Sorry TC. I'm not good at giving advice or things like that but I hope things work out for you. I get really low sometimes too and it can be so freaking crushing. I hope you start feeling better.


Thank you.

cjsdowg posted...
Dude you are 21 you are still young. Go to college. College is where you can turn all this shit around. Met a nice Asian girl and be happy.

But you have to put yourself out there. Join clubs, play sports (if you are good) do anything to get out there.


No college for me.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 2:21:30 AM
#19
ShinigamiSoul posted...
Uhh, you're 21. Not too late.


Knowing me, I'm afraid "It's not too late" will be an excuse I'll use until it really is too late. I'm so fucking unmotivated to do anything right now.

All these people I'm seeing that are so much better than me already. Kills my confidence.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 2:15:55 AM
#17
Do you know what really depresses me?

When I see things from 2013. It wasn't all that long ago, right? I was a junior in high school. My life wasn't going that well then, but at least my grades were pretty good.

However, the angst and stress was tremendous, so I told myself that I needed the time off. And so, I stopped going to school.

Fast forward to now. I'm doing nothing with my life. I could have done something these past 4 years. I've done nothing. And because it doesn't feel that long ago, I feel so terrible. How could life get so terrible in just 4 years?
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 2:06:41 AM
#12
Surprisingly, I haven't broken down in tears yet. But I'm getting there.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 2:04:26 AM
#10
My life is shit.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 1:57:19 AM
#9
All I do is use the computer all day.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 1:53:35 AM
#7
All this fucking time I spent on message boards, all these fucking years, I could have used to improve my life.

I could have had a girlfriend by now. I could have had a good job by now. I could have accomplished some of my dreams by now.

But look at me. Granted, I'm still young, so that gives me hope, but there is so much fucking work I have to do. I'm simply not motivated right now.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 1:50:02 AM
#4
The reason why I said I would be gone for a month was because I wanted to use that time to get my life together.

But fucking shit, I'm a mess. I have so much work to do before I can say I'm a stable adult. The pressure and anxiety is at an all time worst for me, and as I don't have many options vent, I'm back on CE.

My life sucks.
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TopicAlright, I'm back already. And I'm here to tell you all the truth.
Scotty_Rogers
04/02/17 1:46:58 AM
#1
The truth is that I am a fucking loser.

All those topics I made about having sex with women were fake. With absolutely nothing to do with my free time, I indulged in shitposting on message boards. Honestly, it was the closest thing I could do to socializing with other people.

I have no friends. I never had a job. I never had sex. I rarely ever go outside. And I'm 21 years old now. I'm seeing all these people living successful lives and I'm just a textbook bum. Realizing this has killed my passion for anything. I brought this all on myself by choosing to be a shut-in instead of making a serious effort to become more productive; the regret is strong.

And no, I'm not having suicidal tendencies. I'm way too scared to kill myself. Honestly, I'm more likely to watch my life go to waste as a shut-in rather than end it on my own.
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TopicTrump is winning in popular vote at the moment...but has a few less electoral
Scotty_Rogers
03/05/17 5:22:58 AM
#164
this is still going? lol
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TopicThis 24 y/o Louisiana HEIFER was Arrested for having sex with a dog!!
Scotty_Rogers
03/02/17 3:22:51 AM
#9
claasic duckbear
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