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SophieLuvsTofu posted...

DawkinsNumber4 posted...

pinky0926 posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

3) That kinda stuff is degrading. It's really hard to get through with some of those....acts, unless its something you're doing specifically for your partner out of love. Do it for a stranger, and guess what, you just humiliated yourself for no good reason at all.

This is such unbelievable nonsense I don't know where to start.

That's basically what I was getting at.

It's not nonsense.

You may not realize the repercussions now but when you DO do it, there is no going back. Your self confidence goes down, its harder to stay motivated, and you feel like you have a dirtiness in you that you can't clean (for obvious reasons that time travel is not possible).

To give an extreme analogy, it's like yelling at someone. Yes, it may have felt good to say all the things that bother you about someone to that person, but now they will always be hurt because of what you said. Time heals wounds to some extent, yes, but some things such as a fetish video can cause long term trauma.

You do realize that many people live this lifestyle willfully for their entire lives, love it, and give no fucks about people saying what you say because they know each situation is unique, correct?
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pinky0926 posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

3) That kinda stuff is degrading. It's really hard to get through with some of those....acts, unless its something you're doing specifically for your partner out of love. Do it for a stranger, and guess what, you just humiliated yourself for no good reason at all.

This is such unbelievable nonsense I don't know where to start.

That's basically what I was getting at.
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Also I have no reason to believe TC is real but I get annoyed at people trashing the alternative lifestyle community and trying to tell them how sex works, how to have fetishes, what love is etc. It's like jesus christ you can word it as a belief but don't fucking cite it as fact.
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SophieLuvsTofu posted...

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SophieLuvsTofu posted...

No.

Understand that sex is not something that you should "fetish" and is something that is meant to be sacred and unique to your partner and you.

You may do this now and think its easy cash but some scars are irremovable.

I'm not trying to be. <_<

TC is asking because he does not feel confident about it.

I'm just affirming his lack of confidence is sound, it's not something many people can get over without long lasting effects. There is a reason why we call these parts private.

You mean that it'd be on the web forever?

Or just generally speaking?

So multiple factors come into play here, right?

Like the two you mentioned.

1) Yes, it will be available permanently. There is no backtracking.

2) All the reasons I said above.

3) That kinda stuff is degrading. It's really hard to get through with some of those....acts, unless its something you're doing specifically for your partner out of love. Do it for a stranger, and guess what, you just humiliated yourself for no good reason at all.

You need to learn to remember your opinion is not everyone's. Some women like this and never regret it, as well as live the lifestyle. Stop trying to force your beliefs on others,
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The names are the funniest part of this topic.
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