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Not gonna lie, I am quite taken aback by her behavior here.

I've always been nice to her, and if anything I took a "both sides" approach here. I also brought up that she has good points when others criticized her.

In response she lashed at me and is treating me as if I had said period and kitchen jokes at her or something. So I responded with niceness and... she got nastier. I am scratching my head trying to understand it, but it makes 0 sense.

Yeah that sound about right.

And if I dished back at her with 1/10th of the hostility and bitterness she lashed at me she'd weep and then most of CE would treat me like a soul less, cowardly villain. And actually, that proves TC has a point, lol, thanks cleo ^_^

I like how Cleo couldn't refute some of the more real shit like custody hearings and divorce where women inarguably have an unfair advantage. I normally like her but she was just dismissive of everyone.

I remember getting shit in residency over that, even though my USMLEStep 1 was 244. So fucking irritating. Patients who literally asked to see a male physician because they didn't want an "affirmative action physician."

Because Asian girls benefit so much from affirmative action m I ritel

Yeah, when we do a better job than a man, we're a bossy bitch.

LMAO. I was just being fair. But now I am sexist because of that too.

You're just being hostile to me for no reason.

"I know you're lacking in any confidence in yourself or self esteem but just deal with it bro, that's just how it is."

You sound like you'd be a superb engineer. Please, stay far, far, far, far, far away from any kind of social work.

Your memory isn't that good I guess. Yes, I paraphrased, duh. My point still stands.

You didn't mean well with this reply, anyway. I made other post ITT, even defending you from other posters by pointing out that you have faced quite a lot of sexism in your workplace, and that YOUR points are not "just bullshit" even though you didn't list them here. But you chose to ignore that and zero in on this and act low key hostile.

So.... do you tell the tumblr-type people who post feminist stuff (without " "manning up" and dealing with it") the same?

She jumps the gun on calling any man who doesn't agree that men have issues to as a fucking loser "defeatist", though.

Everyone has different obstacles to deal with.

Was he always that way? (Not putting up with disrespect)

I also think he sounds like a yes, dear cuck.

I'll never stop hearing gay Bowser

I've told my gf I want to do the same thing lol

How is that similar to cuckholding....

If she comes in dressed like this to some bars that have a lot of aggressive thirsty dudes, her looking like a trashy whore is going to attract a lot of attention from dudes looking for an easy lay. Not all drunk dudes accept "no" so she could find herself in a bad situation depending on where you live and what kind of crowd your dealing with.

While this is unlikely to happen it can as women do get roofied or harassed not even dressed this way.

Some fantasies are best left in the privacy of your home.

You didn't actually laugh at this right, you're being ironic right

Lol funny thing, for lunch she brought us medium pepperoni papa johns pizza and 2 pepsi bottles

can i have him

Does he have a rubbable beard

But does he bring you breakfast in bed?

does he have nice chest hair

Dude's absolutely a keeper. Let him know how much he matters to you.

KFC: Let's release a dating sim.

Wendy's: Hold my frosty.

Can I add bacon or egg to a burger?

I have to admit this has become a far more complicated decision than I originally thought from reading your thread and have seemingly mixed up the various opportunities you were considering.

That all being said I'd be very dubious about someone who promises to help work with you to change the culture. You either be the change and drive it, or you don't. I'd be curious to understand why they didn't do much about it before, and realistically what will change now?

You sound certain so that's a good sign. Imo there's nothing a good brain storming session cant solve. I find this thread fascinating as in my region for my field theres only really 3 places you can work and 70% of the field goes to one of them lol

Wow, you got a good man.

What would a "not shit wife" be in your opinion? Do you want him to need you in someway?

I ask because many times my gf will say she feels like a bad gf because I pretty much do handle most of the things. I clean and cook for myself and her when she wants it, I do the vast majority of the shopping, helping with majority of financial stuff while she's in school, etc. She pretty much feels like I don't "need" her, but she needs me. Which is a dynamic she knows I don't want. The dynamic of her feeling like she needs me. It's just how it is temporarily due to various circumstances.

Hey I want to thank

@MabusIncarnate
@a-c-a-b
@JimCarrysToe
@CanuckCowboy
@inloveanddeath0
@Walter
@MedeaLysistrata
@Cleo_II

You guys kept my shit alive now let's get loaded and keep Mabus's topic alive and get it to 500.

I'll always back you guys up because you're always behind me. I got all your backs if you deserve it. Those that do, let's enjoy the night.

But he wouldn't take you to Vegas..

yeah, sounds like a great guy. 6 is a big dealbreaker for me personally. my wife also deals with medical conditions of various kinds but none that incapacitate her like that

Like, as a human constantly in long term relationships, I get that are always bumps, but you can't get moody at him for always saying yes when you also get moody at him when he says no.

I ain't trying to hate, but if you're gonna send him mixed signals like this, y'all reall need to sit down and talk about some underlying issues.

Lastly, it just sounds like he's constantly fucking tired and needs a break from life if he's doing all these extra things. I know this is a topic about you extolling his virtues, so you've left out what you do for him, but damn, dude. Give the guy a couple weeks off from shit. He's heading for a burn out if he ain't already there.

Go on a vacation to a cabin for two weeks. Do nothing but eat delectable food and have sex and read and watch movies together; otherwise, he's just gonna get more pissy pants without saying anything while he does everything.

glad youre happy. I always laugh whenever I see all the leave him/divorce his ass! posts

Its probably a good sign that it makes you feel like a shit wife, if you can actually improve.

But I'd worry that you may get bored of him being so compliant and docile.

Well you better enjoy all that because your next best option who can do all that is me. Something to think about.

Cleo, the culture is the biggest issue isn't it?

He genuinely cannot change that. A cultural change comes about as a massive shift as an organization.
The rest is nice. But you have to keep in mind you're in sales. He's most likely low balling you and what he said now is closer to his real offer.

He can promote you to "Top Sales Manager Number One!" but culture ain't changing that fast.

I feel the sentence is appropriate.

Welp I have a bulging disc

engineers are the worst